Obviously they don't practice astinence though.
Exactly. Easier said than done.
This is a flat out lie... where are these millions of babies being born whos Parents were taught strictly Abstanince "ONLY"...
I like the way Cap'n Rick tries to add substance to his points by slipping in little lies...
RAGIN CAJUN
3rd May 2009 - 07:35 PM
What is with the Cap'n Rick verbage?
rick
4th May 2009 - 05:10 AM
| QUOTE (RAGIN CAJUN @ May 3 2009, 07:35 PM) |
| What is with the Cap'n Rick verbage? |
Simple, I say abstinence sounds good, but look at the rate of unwanted and teen pregnancies amongst kids taught abstinence. You get two teens aroused in passion and hormones, give them the opportunity and abstinence goes out the door. I was taught abstinence, most of my friends and all of my family were taught abstinence-it fails due to the human condition of being a healthy, normal, being. You know what I mean, I'm sure. You can teach kids to drive safely, not speed, not to drink alcohol, be home at midnight. That all sounds good, but when they get into the wreck, go to the jail or a hospital, or come home at 3 am intoxicated, you know teaching is just guidance, not the solution to all problems.
MAKEMDEAD
4th May 2009 - 05:35 PM
Understand exactly what you are saying here Rick and you are correct, but why are kids running the streets and doing this stuff? Keep them home, stop buying them everything they want and most importantly, spend time with them. It is not a fool proof system, but it does work. Parents are not being parents in today's America.
rick
4th May 2009 - 07:05 PM
| QUOTE (MAKEMDEAD @ May 4 2009, 05:35 PM) |
| Understand exactly what you are saying here Rick and you are correct, but why are kids running the streets and doing this stuff? Keep them home, stop buying them everything they want and most importantly, spend time with them. It is not a fool proof system, but it does work. Parents are not being parents in today's America. |
Makeme, You're right about the kids running the streets. I did as a kid, but was street smart enough to keep out of trouble. I was taught abstinence, but only with luck did I not knock-up my high school sweetheart. I just found out my grandson has gotten his girlfriend pregnant. Both came from families that taught abstinence. That's what I meant about it not working. You can't be with them every minute.
MAKEMDEAD
6th May 2009 - 07:54 PM
Lucky? You might have been more careful than you think you were? I have never heard of a kid getting another kid pregnant when they watched them. Teaching the word abstinence means nothing to a kid that is horny, teaching the respect of a parent is priceless.
B-man
7th May 2009 - 08:56 PM
I can speak from experience that abstinence does not work. I knew about it but was too horny to care.
What I wasn't taught was how to have sex safely. I truly thought that the pull out method would work... boy was I wrong.
Kids will do the right thing if you just teach them. Kids aren't always stupid.
Mad_Italian
8th May 2009 - 08:29 PM
| QUOTE (B-man @ May 7 2009, 08:56 PM) |
I can speak from experience that abstinence does not work. I knew about it but was too horny to care.
What I wasn't taught was how to have sex safely. I truly thought that the pull out method would work... boy was I wrong.
Kids will do the right thing if you just teach them. Kids aren't always stupid. |
B-man, you are starting to sound like an anti-gun type in saying that! Abstinence never fails, it is people that fail, just like guns don't kill people, people kill people.
Montrovant
8th May 2009 - 09:57 PM
Of course it's true that abstinence works Mad, but I think the point of the discussion is whether or not teaching only abstinence and not including other forms of prevention is effective.
rick
9th May 2009 - 04:48 AM
| QUOTE (Montrovant @ May 8 2009, 09:57 PM) |
| Of course it's true that abstinence works Mad, but I think the point of the discussion is whether or not teaching only abstinence and not including other forms of prevention is effective. |
Exactly Mont. What I was trying to point out is that of course abstinence works, but it is up to the human that was taught that method. It's much like driving. If everyone followed the law as they are taught, never swayed from doing the things we are taught, there would never be any wrecks, no speeding tickets, no ran red lights etcetera. When you use a method that is dependent on a human being, especially an adolescent who can't even legally sign a contract, it leaves too much to chance.
Alucard
9th May 2009 - 06:59 AM
Every post on this page fails to address the most important issue at hand... And that is...Taking responsability for you actions...
Putting aside the whole life issue... People(even teens) must learn to take responsability..
Rick gave a good example when he said "You can teach kids to drive safely, not speed, not to drink alcohol, be home at midnight, but when they get into the wreck, go to the jail or a hospital, or come home at 3 am intoxicated, you know teaching is just guidance, not the solution to all problems."
This is all true... The piont I see being missed in all this though is the fact that when a child get into a wreck, goes to the jail or a hospital, or come home at 3 am intoxicated... They must face the consequences and take resposability for their actions...
There is no pill that takes the car accident or court date away, or brings back to life the persons killed in a car wreck... nor should there be...
By allowing children to use drugs to avoid the cosequences of their actions you are just throwing fuel on the fire, giving teens(and adults) the platform to continue to act irresponsable..
Detmurds
9th May 2009 - 07:07 AM
| QUOTE (Alucard @ May 9 2009, 06:59 AM) |
Every post on this page fails to address the most important issue at hand... And that is...Taking responsability for you actions...
Putting aside the whole life issue... People(even teens) must learn to take responsability..
Rick gave a good example when he said "You can teach kids to drive safely, not speed, not to drink alcohol, be home at midnight, but when they get into the wreck, go to the jail or a hospital, or come home at 3 am intoxicated, you know teaching is just guidance, not the solution to all problems."
This is all true... The piont I see being missed in all this though is the fact that when a child get into a wreck, goes to the jail or a hospital, or come home at 3 am intoxicated... They must face the consequences and take resposability for their actions...
There is no pill that takes the car accident or court date away, or brings back to life the persons killed in a car wreck... nor should there be... By allowing children to use drugs to avoid the cosequences of their actions you are just throwing fuel on the fire, giving teens(and adults) the platform to continue to act irresponsable.. |
Al, I think I have said it many times, ...."we have to accept and live by the decisions we make."
rick
9th May 2009 - 07:07 AM
| QUOTE (Alucard @ May 9 2009, 06:59 AM) |
Every post on this page fails to address the most important issue at hand... And that is...Taking responsability for you actions...
Putting aside the whole life issue... People(even teens) must learn to take responsability..
Rick gave a good example when he said "You can teach kids to drive safely, not speed, not to drink alcohol, be home at midnight, but when they get into the wreck, go to the jail or a hospital, or come home at 3 am intoxicated, you know teaching is just guidance, not the solution to all problems."
This is all true... The piont I see being missed in all this though is the fact that when a child get into a wreck, goes to the jail or a hospital, or come home at 3 am intoxicated... They must face the consequences and take resposability for their actions...
There is no pill that takes the car accident or court date away, or brings back to life the persons killed in a car wreck... nor should there be... By allowing children to use drugs to avoid the cosequences of their actions you are just throwing fuel on the fire, giving teens(and adults) the platform to continue to act irresponsable.. |
Alucard, That's the best post you have made. I knew you could give your opinion in a non offensive way. I don't agree with making children have a child to teach them responsibility. Often it's the grandparents that end up stuck with the responsibility. I'm speaking from experience...I become a great-grandfather next month. Teens aren't allowed to drink alcohol legally, sign contracts, or even rent a car in most states. I don't think they need to have an unplanned child due to urges and spur of the moment decisions they aren't allowed to make-legally.
Alucard
9th May 2009 - 07:11 AM
QUOTE (Detmurds @ May 9 2009, 11:07 AM)
| QUOTE (Alucard @ May 9 2009, 06:59 AM) |
Every post on this page fails to address the most important issue at hand... And that is...Taking responsability for you actions...
Putting aside the whole life issue... People(even teens) must learn to take responsability..
Rick gave a good example when he said "You can teach kids to drive safely, not speed, not to drink alcohol, be home at midnight, but when they get into the wreck, go to the jail or a hospital, or come home at 3 am intoxicated, you know teaching is just guidance, not the solution to all problems."
This is all true... The piont I see being missed in all this though is the fact that when a child get into a wreck, goes to the jail or a hospital, or come home at 3 am intoxicated... They must face the consequences and take resposability for their actions...
There is no pill that takes the car accident or court date away, or brings back to life the persons killed in a car wreck... nor should there be... By allowing children to use drugs to avoid the cosequences of their actions you are just throwing fuel on the fire, giving teens(and adults) the platform to continue to act irresponsable.. |
Al, I think I have said it many times, ...."we have to accept and live by the decisions we make."
I agree...In this situation someone will die for the decision we make...
Alucard
9th May 2009 - 07:25 AM
| QUOTE (rick @ May 9 2009, 11:07 AM) |
| I knew you could give your opinion in a non offensive way. |
Not that often Rick... I an a self admitted a$s and jackhole... Feel free to address me such whenever its needed...
Alucard
10th May 2009 - 05:55 AM
| QUOTE (rick @ May 9 2009, 11:07 AM) |
| Teens aren't allowed to drink alcohol legally, sign contracts, or even rent a car in most states. |
That is correct... And this is as it should be... why then have we made exceptions in abortions... Why can a minor get surgery in most states behind their parents back? A procedure that causes many women suffer terribly for the rest of their lives once they realize what they have done...
The untold side effects of abortion like suicide and lifelong depression..
The truth is, its about Money... Killing babies is Big Business in America and there is no way those corperations are going to let a stupid thing like your "parental rights" come between them and a huge market out there(kids)...
If children needed parental permision for abortions, it would lead to more grandparents and much less profits for these baby killing facilities...
Do you really think anyone at planned parenthood really gives a hoot about the kids or women they run through there... Its about making money... And teens are a huge market ...
Well, once you get mom and dad out of the way they are ...
B-man
16th May 2009 - 12:48 PM
I don't want to pay for some teen having a child. It's easy saying they should take responsibility but how can they. You and I pay for it both in money and blood.
It's crazy.
Give a baby a loaded gun and it will probably shoot itself in the head.
Detmurds
17th May 2009 - 03:48 AM
| QUOTE (B-man @ May 16 2009, 12:48 PM) |
I don't want to pay for some teen having a child. It's easy saying they should take responsibility but how can they. You and I pay for it both in money and blood.
It's crazy.
Give a baby a loaded gun and it will probably shoot itself in the head. |
Either way you and I are subject to paying (Obama is going to pay for world-wide abortions)

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I can't recall anyone I know saying that they regret having their child?
Planned parenthood

? ...Leave that up to God, because the only thing a male and female can plan is the sex that lead them up to parenthood.
No child is a "mistake"

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